Caleb

By that point in my life, I had spent years doing the work of attachment. Learning how to stay. Learning how to repair. Learning how to build a “we.” But somewhere in the middle of all that growth, another question had quietly followed me: How do I love someone deeply without losing the parts of myself that make me feel alive?

A reflection on the early agreements that shaped my relationship with Caleb — from flirty boundaries and the “time zone rule” to honoring autonomy and becoming lifelong travel partners. Not all who wander are lost.